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6月7日

"Tom & Jerry" the Cartoon?


How much do you like Tom & Jerry?

How do you feel about it's violent issue?

This is the cartoon which my son loves to watch the most since he was very young. At first, I didn't realize how this cartoon could effect my son. I felt kind of good to see him laughed or danced while he was watching them. For the reason we were away from home and because of the change in our life style in Vietnam that made me allowed him to watch this cartoon for long hours everyday in the past.

After some observation and sitting with him for a while...I noticed that my son was a copycat...a very good one. He started to imitate Tom & Jerry not only the singing and dancing but also the hitting each other. He thought hitting someone is the fun and O.K. thing to do.

I myself used to like this cartoon series very much and still do. But I'm not so sure this is a good source for young children. These old violent Tom & Jerry (cat and mouse team) cartoons which they chase each other, and also they try to hit each other with pies, pans, and golf clubs and bare fists are more worse. This cartoon has much violence and action, TV executives decided that the violence inherent in the early Tom and Jerry cartoons was too brutal for young audiences (so they came out Tom & Jerry kids), many articles have mentioned it all, many local TV stations had stopped showing Tom & Jerry.

I also know the parenting is needed in the case like this but if we can prevent, why not? right?

 (A')

 

Encl. Full review of Tom & Jerry by Jaywa

I can vividly remember plopping down in front of the television on Saturday mornings to watch Tom and Jerry as a child. It was my favorite childhood cartoon(other than Voltron). I found it hilarious to watch Tom Cat's crazy antics to try to capture the hard-to-catch Jerry Mouse.

When I think of children's cartoons (aside from the terrible new age children's shows such as Digimon, Pokemon, and Power Rangers), I think of Tom and Jerry. It is the epitome of children's cartoons. I feel this cartoon was a pioneer, and eventually blazed the trail for many other great cartoon series.

Tom and Jerry, as mentioned, are a cat and mouse, respectively. What child doesn't know that dogs chase cats, cats chase mice, and mice chase cheese? So, from that, we know that this cartoon is about Tom chasing Jerry. But these two animals aren't ordinary animals. They are as close to human as any animal will ever get; they have the ability to reason. This is what makes the show entertaining. Tom comes up with many different ways to try to capture Jerry, and Jerry must find a way out of his paws.

Obviously aimed at the younger children audience, this show has little to no plot, no character development, and no educational value. You just sit down in from of the television, and let the mind-numbing action of cartoons take it's toll, and rot some brain cells!

However, I do have a rather large bone to pick with this cartoon...

Why is Tom and Jerry so darn violent!? Both Tom and Jerry use very violent tactics to get what they want. Tom has used the likes of TNT, guns, hammers, and many other things to try to get his paws on Jerry. Jerry, on the other hand, must do anything to try to get away and prevent imminent death. Jerry will stick forks in Tom's tail, sling foreign objects at his adversary, and sic dogs on Tom. I can't believe all the violence in this cartoon! I will break this violence into two categories: How it's viewed by adults and how children *may* interpret it.

Adults obviously know that violence like this is wrong; so we view this cartoon without being influenced to go out and harm someone just to get what we want. The cartoon is simple humor, although violent, but humorous nonetheless. We watch this cartoon with any violent thoughts.

This cartoon's target audience is young children. Young children's minds are very easily imprinted on. So when they see that violence is a way to get what you want, they could translate that to hurting someone because they saw it on t.v. They are too young to know that they are inflicting pain and hurting someone when they do this. They have no sense of what they are doing.

Overall, I am very surprised that I have not heard one complaint from any parents ever about how violent Tom and Jerry is. Jezum Crow, there are episodes where Tom gets shot in the face with a shotgun! I am appalled that this how is on Cartoon Network, a channel for children. The cartoon is funny, no doubt about that, but the violence sometimes overshadows the humor.

 http://www.epinions.com/kifm-Network-Cartoon_Network-Tom___Jerry_Kids/display_~reviews

 

6月6日

Boost Positive Behaviour - Books for kids


Since my son, Atom, was four years old full and been spoiled in Thailand for two months...been watching action cartoon (Ultraman) and Tom & Jerry everydays. Plus he is the only grandson in the big family out of 14. He becomes very violent... more and more each day.
He thinks he's a big boy now. He likes to hit or punch others kids...or even bite and kick... That gives me a very big headache!!
 
I have tried many ways to correct this behaviour of him.
 
I bought a good set book for him today. It's good for kids...an hopefully Atom will learn something.
 
 

Hands Are Not for Hitting Board Book
Martine Agassi, Ph.D., and Illustrated by Marieka Heinlen 


 

 

It’s never too soon for children to learn that violence is never okay, hands can do many good things, and everyone is capable of positive, loving actions. “Hands are not for hitting. Hands are for saying hello. . . .” And for playing, creating, helping, working, learning, encouraging, taking care of oneself, and so many more good things.

In this gentle, encouraging book, psychologist Martine Agassi helps young children understand that they are capable of positive, loving actions.

Simple words and warm, inviting full-color illustrations reinforce the underlying concepts: that violence is never okay, and kids can learn to manage their anger.

Especially at an age when children are interacting more with others and starting school, they need to know that hitting is unacceptable. Words tell—and pictures show—the many wonderful things kids can do with their hands instead of hitting.

Made to be read aloud, Hands Are Not for Hitting also includes a special section for adults, with ideas for things to talk about and activities to do together.

Recommended for anyone in a caring relationship with a young child; perfect for day-care, preschool, kindergarten, and early elementary school classrooms. 

 

Teeth Are Not for Biting Board Book
Elizabeth Verdick and Illustrated by Marieka Heinlen 

Crunch crunch crunch. Teeth are strong and sharp. Crunch crunch crunch. Teeth can help you chew. But teeth are not for biting. Ouch! Biting hurts.” Sooner or later, almost all young children will bite someone—a friend, a parent, a sibling. This upbeat, colorful, virtually indestructible book helps prevent biting and teaches positive alternatives.

 

Feet Are Not for Kicking Board Book
Elizabeth Verdick and illustrated by Marieka Heinlen 

"Look at those feet! Aren’t they sweet?” Yes—when they’re walking, standing, leaping and landing. And when they’re kicking balls or leaves.

But not when they’re kicking people!

In simple words and charming full-color illustrations, this book helps little ones learn to use their feet for fun, not in anger or frustration. It also includes tips for parents and caregivers on how to help toddlers be sweet with their feet.

People who like this title also like:

Germs Are Not for Sharing Board Book
Tails Are Not for Pulling Board Book
Words Are Not for Hurting Board Book

Visit the website at  http://www.freespirit.com/catalog/item_detail.cfm?ITEM_ID=93

 

Thank you

 (A')

3月3日

9 Ways to Make Your Kids Smarter

I think this is true and very good for all parents.  

Is intelligence an inherited gift or can it be nurtured and enhanced by the right environment? The answer appears to be both. While intelligence clearly has a genetic component, scientific research is beginning to show that certain approaches boost learning and mental development in young minds. The following slides summarize proven strategies for building your child's brainpower.

Make music: Listening to your child play the trombone isn't always a pleasurable experience, but music lessons can be a fun way to engage in right-brain learning. According to a study by University of Toronto researchers, organized music lessons appear to benefit children's IQ and academic performance—and the more years the student takes lessons, the greater the effect. The study found that taking music lessons in childhood was a clear predictor of better grades in high school and a higher IQ in adulthood. So help your children release their inner Mozart, sign them up for the school band or private lessons.

By Korey Capozza for MSN Health & Fitness

Breast feed:  Mother's milk is elemental brain food. Research consistently has shown that breast-feeding has multiple benefits for growing infants. It prevents dangerous infections and provides essential nourishment. Danish researchers have discovered that breast-feeding can make babies both healthier and smarter. The study found that infants who breast-fed for nine months grew up to be significantly more intelligent than those who breast-fed for one month or less. The bottom line: If breast-feeding works for you make an early investment in your child's health. Breast-feeding your infant can deliver long-term dividends.

Foster fitness:  Studies by University of Illinois researchers have shown a strong relationship between fitness scores and academic achievement among primary school children. Participation in organized sports fosters confidence, teamwork and leadership, according to research by the Oppenheimer Funds. This study also found that 81 percent of women business executives played team sports as girls. So instead of retiring to the TV after dinner, consider throwing a ball around or going for a walk. Even better: Encourage your child to get involved in an organized physical activity or school sport.

Surprise! Play video games:  Video games get a bad rap. Yes, many are violent, solitary and mindless, but stick to the ones that develop children's strategic thinking and planning skills and the ones that promote teamwork or creativity. Educational toy companies like Leapfrog are now creating motor- skill and memory enhancing games for small children—even toddlers. A recent study conducted at the University of Rochester found that participants who played video games recognized and learned visual cues much faster than their non-video-game-playing counterparts. British teachers have begun using some video games in the classroom.

Junk the junk food:  Cutting out sugar, trans fats and other junk food from your child's diet and replacing them with high-nutrient alternatives can do wonders for early childhood mental and motor development—especially in the first two years of life. For example, kids need iron for healthy brain tissue development, as nerve impulses move more slowly when children are iron-deficient.  And studies show that poorly nourished children have trouble fighting infections, which causes them to miss school and fall behind their peers. Pay attention to what your kids are eating, and the grades may follow.

Nurture curiosity:   Experts say parents who show curiosity and encourage their children to explore new ideas teach them a valuable lesson: Seeking knowledge is important.  Support your kids’ hobbies and interests by asking them questions, teaching them new skills and taking them on educational outings to develop intellectual curiosity.

Read!:   This tried-and-true method sometimes gets overlooked in the rush to adopt the latest IQ-boosting technology, but reading is a sure-fire, low-tech way to improve learning and cognitive developing in children of all ages. Read to your children from an early age, sign your child up for a library card and keep the house stocked with books.

Breakfast breeds champions:   A strong body of research dating back to the 1970s shows that eating breakfast improves memory, concentration and learning. And children who don't eat breakfast tend to tire easier, be more irritable and react less quickly than those who begin the day with a solid meal. With today's hectic schedules, a full sit-down breakfast isn't always possible. But even an energy bar and a glass of milk can go a long way towards helping your kids stay focused and engaged during school hours.

Play mind games:   Chess, crosswords, cryptograms, riddles—they all train the brain to perform mental gymnastics. Games like Sudoku can be fun while promoting strategic thinking, problem-solving and complex decision-making. Keep brainteasers around the house and challenge your children to help you solve the trickier problems.

Korey Capozza is a San Francisco-based writer who contributes regularly to MSN Health & Fitness.